Bad Communication Ends A Lot Of Good Things

We talk, we communicate to understand , to find clarity, resolve and not to fight or argue ! We however end up on the latter and this is where communication becomes damaging. Probably because when we initiate conversation, we tend to expect to convince not just send message. We expect to win. And if we can’t get what we expect, we become frustrated and that brings a very strong , negative energy which pushes us to say more things that we actually don’t mean. We become argumentative, our listening skill which is an integral part in conversing slowly diminishes. And worst, sometimes, we missed the reason why we want to talk , we focus on the winning, we divert attention to other non related topics just because we want to hurt the other person.

The good relationship starts to shatter because of the failure to establish good communication.

If the way of communicating is also to be silent, then that creates a larger problem. The other party won’t be able to understand clearly, our silence can project and trigger a lot of interpretations.

Communication should be good and nurturing . It’s not a simple exchange of ideas but involves a considerably high level of pleasant energy to allow you to be open, receptive and willing.

Remember the value of the thing , situation or a person to you, and don’t allow outburst of uncontrolled words and emotions come out because you can’t take it back.